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<channel><title><![CDATA[Art By Cady - Blog]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.artbycady.com/blog.html]]></link><description><![CDATA[Blog]]></description><pubDate>Fri, 25 May 2012 11:56:35 -0800</pubDate><generator>Weebly</generator><item><title><![CDATA[Tea Roses - watercolor steps]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.artbycady.com/1/post/2012/02/tea-roses-watercolor-steps.html]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.artbycady.com/1/post/2012/02/tea-roses-watercolor-steps.html#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Tue, 28 Feb 2012 14:36:59 -0800</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.artbycady.com/1/post/2012/02/tea-roses-watercolor-steps.html</guid><description><![CDATA[I'm one of those artists who is addicted to step-by-step photos....which is why I post so many step-by-step photos for your ultimate viewing pleasure! &nbsp;:)Last fall, I went to the N.C. State Arboretum and took a bunch of reference photos of the flowers there. &nbsp;Great spot to take photos, BTW. &nbsp;I was hoping to get some florals with a lot of s [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div  class="paragraph editable-text" style=" text-align: left; "><font size="3"><font color="#999999">I'm one of those artists who is addicted to step-by-step photos....which is why I post so many step-by-step photos for your ultimate viewing pleasure! &nbsp;:)</font><br /><br /><font color="#999999">Last fall, I went to the N.C. State Arboretum and took a bunch of reference photos of the flowers there. &nbsp;Great spot to take photos, BTW. &nbsp;I was hoping to get some florals with a lot of sun and shadow partly b/c I love the challenge of painting shadows and the other partly (lol?) b/c I love the challenge of painting sunshine....that doesn't really make sense, but you know what I mean.</font><br /><br /><font color="#999999">The challenge was painting all of the darks while preserving the "white" of the flowers. &nbsp;It's a process...trust me. &nbsp;:)</font></font></div>  <div ><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-thin " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="http://www.artbycady.com/uploads/5/5/6/6/5566672/4326756.jpg?593" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div  class="paragraph editable-text" style=" text-align: left; "><font size="3" color="#999999">After sketching out the flowers and figuring out the balance of the painting, I started with my lightest initial colors. &nbsp;Even though the tea roses were a lovely light shade of whitish-pink, they had a lot of warm colors on the petals b/c of the sunshine.<br /><br />I knew that my background was going to be very dark. &nbsp;I usually like to start a dark background with a violet wash and darken it with Payne's Grey. &nbsp;The rose all the way on the left was going to be almost totally in shadow, so I started those leaves darker than the rest.</font></div>  <div ><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-thin " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="http://www.artbycady.com/uploads/5/5/6/6/5566672/1054151.jpg?636" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div  class="paragraph editable-text" style=" text-align: left; "><font color="#999999"><font size="3">It's usually at about this point in a painting that I start kicking myself for starting such a complex piece...lol....all of those little petals had to be painted separately and I had to paint them in stages. &nbsp;While one petal dried, I painted the petal 2 spaces over and so on. &nbsp;OY!</font><br /><br /><font size="3">Painting a petal to make it look like it's curling is a little tricky. Right where the curl starts, I touch on the color and then with clean water, I soften down one edge making the space under the curl darker and creating depth to the flower.</font><br /><br /><font size="3">I spent a lot of time concentrating on the &nbsp;middle rose. &nbsp;The flower on the left is going to be totally in shadow and the flower on the right (not painted yet) is going to be VERY sunny. &nbsp;The flower with the most light on it actually gets the least amount of time and paint b/c the white of the paper does the job nicely for me! &nbsp;:)</font></font></div>  <div ><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-thin " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="http://www.artbycady.com/uploads/5/5/6/6/5566672/8491188_orig.jpg" alt="Picture" style="width:100%;max-width:1100px" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div  class="paragraph editable-text" style=" text-align: left; "><font color="#999999"><font size="3">At this stage, I'm being very careful to paint and soften around the "sunspots" on the petals. &nbsp;The bottom flower is part shade, part sun and I spent a great deal of time studying all of the intricate shapes and shadows that the sun made on the flower.</font><br /><br /><font size="3">I also started planning what the leaves were going to look like. &nbsp;I didn't want to paint a lot of greenery since I felt that that would detract from the flowers....just a few. &nbsp;</font><br /><br /><font size="3">Once I start adding the dark background, the flowers literally pop forward on the page. &nbsp;It's one of my favorite steps in the process b/c the whites become brilliant and you start to really see the sun/shadow effect.</font></font><br /><font color="#999999"></font><br /><font color="#999999"><font size="3">This is going to take a few washes to get the depth of color that I need in the background.</font></font></div>  <div ><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-thin " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="http://www.artbycady.com/uploads/5/5/6/6/5566672/3133783_orig.jpg" alt="Picture" style="width:100%;max-width:1100px" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div  class="paragraph editable-text" style=" text-align: left; "><font color="#999999"><font size="3">I'm starting to add in the background with cool greens (Viridian), Payne's Grey and some Violet, alternating between the three colors as I paint from one corner to the other.</font><br /><br /><font size="3">The rose on the right had a lot of sun on it, so I'm keeping the details very light on that rose, allowing a lot of the white of the paper to show through. &nbsp;You can tell at this stage that I'm still not sure how I'm going to make the greenery work in this painting. &nbsp;I kind of struggled with shapes and lighting on the leaves before settling on what I thought would work best.</font></font></div>  <div ><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-thin " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="http://www.artbycady.com/uploads/5/5/6/6/5566672/1474350_orig.jpg" alt="Picture" style="width:100%;max-width:1100px" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div  class="paragraph editable-text" style=" text-align: left; "><font color="#999999" size="3">I'm pretty close to being done here. &nbsp;After the painting dried, I took a wet brush and I softened around some of the leaves, dabbing it with a tissue to create the softness from the sun. &nbsp;I also lifted some spots on the leaves and within the dark blue to create small spots of sunshine.</font><br /><br /><font color="#999999" size="3">Here are some close-ups to give you an idea of the details. &nbsp;</font></div>  <div ><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-thin " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="http://www.artbycady.com/uploads/5/5/6/6/5566672/7898854_orig.jpg" alt="Picture" style="width:100%;max-width:531px" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div ><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-thin " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="http://www.artbycady.com/uploads/5/5/6/6/5566672/9121725_orig.jpg" alt="Picture" style="width:100%;max-width:1100px" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div  class="paragraph editable-text" style=" text-align: left; "><font color="#999999" size="3">Oh, and I forgot to mention that at the very end, I lightly washed a cool yellow over some of the leaves to warm them up. &nbsp;Just touch the yellow on and lightly wash over the purples and pinks of the petals, but don't over work it with your brush or else the underpainting will come off!</font><br /><font color="#999999" size="3"></font><br /><font color="#999999" size="3"><span style="line-height: 24px;">The light branches here and there were lifted with a brush and water.<br /></span></font><br /><font color="#999999" size="3"><span style="line-height: 24px;">Happy Painting, my friends!</span></font></div>  <div ><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-thin " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="http://www.artbycady.com/uploads/5/5/6/6/5566672/6600290.jpg?399" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Book Review - Spin Sisters - STRESS!]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.artbycady.com/1/post/2012/02/book-review-spin-sisters-stress.html]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.artbycady.com/1/post/2012/02/book-review-spin-sisters-stress.html#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Wed, 08 Feb 2012 09:59:08 -0800</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.artbycady.com/1/post/2012/02/book-review-spin-sisters-stress.html</guid><description><![CDATA[Okay, ladies....it's time to pick up a seriously good book. &nbsp;Spin Sisters by Myrna Blyth is a must read. &nbsp;As an editor of many popular magazines including The Ladies' Home Journal and Family Circle, Ms. Blyth gives women the scoop on how magazines sell us many , many lies....Lies about how we, as women, are victims, we are [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div  class="paragraph editable-text" style=" text-align: left; "><font color="#999999" size="3">Okay, ladies....it's time to pick up a seriously good book. &nbsp;</font><br /><br /><font size="3" color="#666666"><u>Spin Sisters </u>by Myrna Blyth is a must read. &nbsp;<br /><br />As an editor of many popular magazines including The Ladies' Home Journal and Family Circle, Ms. Blyth gives women the scoop on how magazines sell us many , many lies....Lies about how we, as women, are victims, we are frumpy, fat and frazzled, we cannot deal with our jobs, our children, our marriages, etc. &nbsp; &nbsp;She delves into why magazine covers constantly sell "STRESS! &nbsp;STESS! &nbsp;STRESS!!! &nbsp;Are You Stressed? &nbsp;10 Ways to Relive Stress. &nbsp;How to Live With Stress! &nbsp;How Stress Makes You Fat! &nbsp;How Stress Hurts Your Love Life!" &nbsp;Ms. Blyth debunks all of these headline exaggerations and digs deeper to reveal that, basically, we've been had.<br /><br />She raises a LOT of good questions....things that have given me pause for thought in my own life. &nbsp;Never before in all of American history have women held the positions of power that they now hold...never before have we been as healthy and well educated. &nbsp;We have myriads of machines that do our work, keeping our hands callous free. &nbsp;Infant mortality has never been better and we typically don't die in childbirth! &nbsp;Women can work, stay at home, study, travel, sing, act, paint, ...do anything that our heart desires and yet, we are<em> still </em>whining about how stressed we are! &nbsp;We can choose to have children or NOT have children, how MANY children to have and how to raise each child. &nbsp;<br /><br />It's definitely a wake-up call. &nbsp;Maybe we're letting the media influence how we think about ourselves too much. &nbsp;Pick up any magazine and you'll find out how to be a bombshell in bed, keep your man, ditch your man, make your eyelashes longer, be thinner, have smoother skin, longer hair, smaller pores, larger bust....read further and you'll feel like you can't win if you stay at home (frazzled moms?) or go to work (can't handle it all? ) &nbsp;Come on.....you know you see these headlines OVER and OVER again and the influence that it has on us is undeniable. &nbsp;We are an easily persuaded lot.<br /><br />Anyhow, pick it up from the library or get it it on your Kindle or Nook. &nbsp;Never again will I look at magazines in the same light.<br /><br />Thank you, Myrna!</font><br /></div>  ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[The lovely advantages to softening lines.....]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.artbycady.com/1/post/2012/01/the-lovely-advantages-to-softening-lines.html]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.artbycady.com/1/post/2012/01/the-lovely-advantages-to-softening-lines.html#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Tue, 10 Jan 2012 05:53:58 -0800</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.artbycady.com/1/post/2012/01/the-lovely-advantages-to-softening-lines.html</guid><description><![CDATA[What makes an interesting painting? &nbsp;Negative and positive shapes, hard and soft edges, contrasts and shadows.....your eye is grandly entertained by all of these elements in a &nbsp;painting. &nbsp;As a watercolor artist, I am a HUGE fan of softening lines. &nbsp;I know I've written about this before, but I think that softening lines to create a  [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div  class="paragraph editable-text" style=" text-align: left; "><font size="3" color="#999999">What makes an interesting painting? &nbsp;Negative and positive shapes, hard and soft edges, contrasts and shadows.....your eye is grandly entertained by all of these elements in a &nbsp;painting. &nbsp;</font><br /><br /><font size="3" color="#999999">As a watercolor artist, I am a HUGE fan of softening lines. &nbsp;I know I've written about this before, but I think that softening lines to create a sun-dappled look is so appealing in a &nbsp;work of art. &nbsp;</font><br /><br /><font size="3" color="#999999">After I finished this Autumnal Meander painting (below) and let it completely dry overnight, I simply used clean water on a brush &nbsp;to work at the edges of the hard lines in the trees ( I dabbed up the water with a tissue), softening up sunspots and lightening anywhere that I thought the sun might hit the branches and trunks. &nbsp;</font><br /><br /><font size="3" color="#999999">It IS a little bit time consuming, but it is totally worth it in your final product. &nbsp;I am especially fond of softening up little circles whenever I paint foliage or florals. &nbsp;It gives the painting a kind of ethereal feel.</font><br /><br /><font size="3" color="#999999">Happy Painting, my friends!</font></div>  <div ><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-thin " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="http://www.artbycady.com/uploads/5/5/6/6/5566672/6206142_orig.jpg" alt="Picture" style="width:100%;max-width:1025px" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Step by step bluebirds and chicory...]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.artbycady.com/1/post/2011/12/step-by-step-bluebirds-and-chicory.html]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.artbycady.com/1/post/2011/12/step-by-step-bluebirds-and-chicory.html#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Wed, 28 Dec 2011 06:03:56 -0800</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.artbycady.com/1/post/2011/12/step-by-step-bluebirds-and-chicory.html</guid><description><![CDATA[I was commissioned for a piece of art this Christmas for the Petree family. &nbsp;The wife liked bluebirds and chicory flowers and her husband wanted to surprise her! &nbsp;He wanted 2 adult bluebirds and 2 adolescent bluebirds sitting on a fence with flowers around....It turned out to be a much longer painting than I anticipated, BUT I think I was psyching myself out with every step trying to paint  [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div  class="paragraph editable-text" style=" text-align: left; "><font size="3" color="#999999">I was commissioned for a piece of art this Christmas for the Petree family. &nbsp;The wife liked bluebirds and chicory flowers and her husband wanted to surprise her! &nbsp;He wanted 2 adult bluebirds and 2 adolescent bluebirds sitting on a fence with flowers around....It turned out to be a much longer painting than I anticipated, BUT I think I was psyching myself out with every step trying to paint REALLY carefully.</font><br /><br /><font size="3" color="#999999">I didn't have a photograph of this painting to work from. &nbsp;I kind of had to piece it together from pictures of bluebirds, flowers, etc. &nbsp;Here are the washes and steps. &nbsp;Unfortunately, I didn't take a pic of the final wash with the cracks and weathering in the wood. &nbsp;I'll have to see if the customer can take a pic for me. &nbsp;I framed it, too, and it came out really nicely.</font></div>  <div ><div style="height:20px;overflow:hidden"></div> <div id='865400947599319743-slideshow'> </div> <script type='text/javascript'> document.observe('dom:loaded', function() { wSlideshow.render({elementID:"865400947599319743",nav:"none",navLocation:"bottom",captionLocation:"bottom",transition:"fade",autoplay:"1",speed:"4",aspectRatio:"auto",images:[{"url":"5/5/6/6/5566672/1234317.jpg","width":"315","height":"250","caption":"Mask the birds, wet the whole page and lightly lay on the first wash"},{"url":"5/5/6/6/5566672/5813539.jpg","width":"318","height":"250","caption":"Wash 2 - deepen colors"},{"url":"5/5/6/6/5566672/5469768.jpg","width":"315","height":"250","caption":"Start fence - wash and soften"},{"url":"5/5/6/6/5566672/1573380.jpg","width":"316","height":"250","caption":"Mask grass and flowers on fence before painting the brown"},{"url":"5/5/6/6/5566672/9491458.jpg","width":"312","height":"250","caption":"Start birds!"},{"url":"5/5/6/6/5566672/8119999.jpg","width":"314","height":"250","caption":"Paint negatively around chicory"},{"url":"5/5/6/6/5566672/6328326.jpg","width":"310","height":"250","caption":"Deepen flower and grass colors"},{"url":"5/5/6/6/5566672/3543770.jpg","width":"313","height":"250","caption":"Another wash on the birds and flowers"},{"url":"5/5/6/6/5566672/8441562.jpg","width":"318","height":"250","caption":"Deepen fence color"},{"url":"5/5/6/6/5566672/8598440.jpg","width":"312","height":"250","caption":"Deepen color on birds and flowers...again :)"},{"url":"5/5/6/6/5566672/8309705.jpg","width":"315","height":"250","caption":"Deepen background color and sky color"},{"url":"5/5/6/6/5566672/4104146.jpg","width":"317","height":"250","caption":"Finish up darkest details, soften edges with water."},{"url":"5/5/6/6/5566672/2732154.jpg","width":"310","height":"250","caption":"Add shadows....final pic with it framed to come!"}]}); }) </script>  <div style="height:20px;overflow:hidden"></div></div>  <div  class="paragraph editable-text" style=" text-align: left; "><font size="3" color="#999999">Feel free to try painting this!<br /><br />Colors I used: &nbsp;French ultramarine, Moss green, Vandyke brown, Prussian blue, New Gamboge yellow, Permanent Alizarin Crimson, &nbsp;Hooker's green, &nbsp;Burn Umber, &nbsp;Raw Sienna<br /><br />Happy Painting! &nbsp;</font></div>  ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Step by Step....Cuddles...the kitty]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.artbycady.com/1/post/2011/12/step-by-stepcuddlesthe-kitty.html]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.artbycady.com/1/post/2011/12/step-by-stepcuddlesthe-kitty.html#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Tue, 27 Dec 2011 10:36:20 -0800</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.artbycady.com/1/post/2011/12/step-by-stepcuddlesthe-kitty.html</guid><description><![CDATA[I took some step by step photos of some of my Christmas present paintings. &nbsp;This is my in-laws kitty, Cuddles, that I painted for Rosemary. &nbsp;Cuddles wasn't the easiest subject to paint because her fur isn't really defined. &nbsp;When you look at her, she just looks like a big fuzzball. &nbsp;Painting fur can be tricky with watercolors, but if you continually soften fur line with water, you  [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div  class="paragraph editable-text" style=" text-align: left; "><font size="3" color="#999999">I took some step by step photos of some of my Christmas present paintings. &nbsp;This is my in-laws kitty, Cuddles, that I painted for Rosemary. &nbsp;Cuddles wasn't the easiest subject to paint because her fur isn't really defined. &nbsp;When you look at her, she just looks like a big fuzzball. &nbsp;Painting fur can be tricky with watercolors, but if you continually soften fur line with water, you can get the soft effect that you are going for.</font><br /><br /><font size="3" color="#999999">Check it out.</font></div>  <div ><div style="height:20px;overflow:hidden"></div> <div id='948113841715403406-slideshow'> </div> <script type='text/javascript'> document.observe('dom:loaded', function() { wSlideshow.render({elementID:"948113841715403406",nav:"none",navLocation:"bottom",captionLocation:"bottom",transition:"fade",autoplay:"1",speed:"5",aspectRatio:"auto",images:[{"url":"5/5/6/6/5566672/4626094.jpg","width":"333","height":"220","caption":"Cuddles is a Persian long hair...lots of blues, greys and some purples."},{"url":"5/5/6/6/5566672/4167789.jpg","width":"333","height":"220","caption":"She has a tiny bit of tan on her"},{"url":"5/5/6/6/5566672/2853087.jpg","width":"333","height":"220","caption":"Deepen your colors and shadows"},{"url":"5/5/6/6/5566672/5451486.jpg","width":"333","height":"220","caption":"Her eyes are deep golden and remember to keep the reflection! Background, Payne&#039;s Grey"},{"url":"5/5/6/6/5566672/9537045.jpg","width":"333","height":"220","caption":"Softening the hair with water and some brush scrubbing. Soften edges with water."},{"url":"5/5/6/6/5566672/255487.jpg","width":"333","height":"230","caption":"A tiny bit of white gouache at the end brings forward her white hairs."},{"url":"5/5/6/6/5566672/4360625.jpg","width":"176","height":"250"}]}); }) </script>  <div style="height:20px;overflow:hidden"></div></div>  <div  class="paragraph editable-text" style=" text-align: left; "><font size="3" color="#999999">Pet portraits make great gifts! &nbsp;Keep me in mind if you're thinking of one. &nbsp;</font></div>  ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Why my kiddos aren't going to date......]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.artbycady.com/1/post/2011/12/why-my-kiddos-arent-going-to-date.html]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.artbycady.com/1/post/2011/12/why-my-kiddos-arent-going-to-date.html#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Tue, 13 Dec 2011 05:40:59 -0800</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.artbycady.com/1/post/2011/12/why-my-kiddos-arent-going-to-date.html</guid><description><![CDATA[I've been doing a great deal of thinking, reading, gathering of opinions about dating lately. &nbsp;Chloe is approaching her teens at light speed, so this is a subject that we need to consider and plan for soon. &nbsp;From all of the books on the subject that I've read, we have come to the decision that we are going to encourage our children to NOT date until they are of marriageabl [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div  class="paragraph editable-text" style=" text-align: left; "><font size="3"><font color="#999999">I've been doing a great deal of thinking, reading, gathering of opinions about dating lately. &nbsp;Chloe is approaching her teens at light speed, so this is a subject that we need to consider and plan for soon. &nbsp;<br /><br />From all of the books on the subject that I've read, we have come to the decision that we are going to encourage our children to NOT date until they are of marriageable age. &nbsp; Here's what I'm thinking...there are TONS of pros to this philosophy and not really any cons....it's a win/win in my opinion. &nbsp;<br /><br />Back in the time, dating or courtship was reserved for when a young man or woman was in the market for a spouse. &nbsp;Children did NOT date, have boyfriends, girlfriends or romantic relationships of any kind. &nbsp;It was unheard of. &nbsp; Our forefathers would have laughed in disbelief at how foolishly we treat this subject of children dating just for the sake of dating.<br /><br />Here's my issue with children who "date" or "go steady" before they are adults. &nbsp;They are practicing for divorce. Think about it. &nbsp;When I was a teenager, I had many boyfriends, I got my heart broken many times, I dumped many boyfriends when I became tired of them, it depressed me and caused me to be tempted physically and to sin. &nbsp;I didn't have the cognitive ability nor the maturity to deal with a relationship and love in a mature way because I was a child with a child's mind and ways. &nbsp;<br /><br />If we allow our kids to leap in and out of dating relationships all through their teen years, how can we expect them to get married as an adult and remain in the marriage for better or for worse? &nbsp;Teens are practicing for divorce through repeatedly "falling in love" (not really understanding what true love is) having fun, tiring or becoming bored and then ditching the person. &nbsp;<br /><br />And this is only one of the issues with teens dating! &nbsp;There's the problem of STD's, teen pregnancy, emotional baggage, broken hearts, inability to love maturely, depression, etc.....I could go on and on! &nbsp;Our kids just don't need that kind of pressure when they are growing up. &nbsp;Allow them to be children without all of the adult issues that we have to deal with. &nbsp;Those will come soon enough.<br /><br />I've already had several chats with Chloe about dating, saving herself, enjoying her teen years with just being friends with boys without all of the pressure. &nbsp;She's fine with it....so far. &nbsp;I realize that we're not that far into her teen years yet, so it's going to have to be an ongoing process to resist what is going on all around her. &nbsp;<br /><br />Anything that we practice in life over and over we are going to become good at, right? &nbsp;Why do we allow our children to practice "breaking up" with people over and over? &nbsp;We are setting them up for failure when the real thing comes along. &nbsp;They aren't practicing true love and commitment which involves working through problems with a spouse, forgiving, loving your spouse with all of their flaws, serving through sicknesses and times that aren't fun. &nbsp;No, a teen will generally bail when the going gets tough in a relationship and they will do this over and over and over for years!<br /><br />Then, when they meet "the one" as adults, they deeply struggle with commitment. &nbsp;Our marriage counselors' offices are packed and our divorce courts can't keep up with the workload! &nbsp;The habits of shallowly falling in love and bailing will follow them throughout their lives.<br /><br />If they've practiced for divorce all through their teens, we can't expect them to remain in a faithful long term "til death do us part" marriage.<br /><br />Let's begin to set the stage for success in this area. &nbsp;I'm going to let my teens follow their dreams, be who they want to be, travel, study, have great times with their friends....but I'm going to allow them to be kids and not be pressured with adult issues until they are adults and ready.<br /><br />Let's let our kids be kids. &nbsp;It's a precious time that they can never regain.</font><br /><br /></font><br /></div>  ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Finishing touches...]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.artbycady.com/1/post/2011/12/finishing-touches.html]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.artbycady.com/1/post/2011/12/finishing-touches.html#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Mon, 12 Dec 2011 17:40:23 -0800</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.artbycady.com/1/post/2011/12/finishing-touches.html</guid><description><![CDATA[So, when I paint a portrait, it literally consumes me. &nbsp;If I have to stop to make dinner, fold laundry or vacuum up the glass ornaments that the cats broke, I will walk by my studio and just look at the painting over and over again.....I can't WAIT to sit back down and finish it. &nbsp;Unfinished paintings drive me nuts!When I finally do sit back down and "finish" the painting, I am  [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div  class="paragraph editable-text" style=" text-align: left; "><font size="3" color="#999999">So, when I paint a portrait, it literally consumes me. &nbsp;If I have to stop to make dinner, fold laundry or vacuum up the glass ornaments that the cats broke, I will walk by my studio and just look at the painting over and over again.....I can't WAIT to sit back down and finish it. &nbsp;Unfinished paintings drive me nuts!<br /><br />When I finally do sit back down and "finish" the painting, I am SO excited about it that I immediately photograph it and post it....and it's usually LATE at night and then I go to bed. &nbsp;<br /><br />The next day, when I look at the painting that the night BEFORE I thought was oh-so-done, it just needs a little bit more here...and a dab here....and I leave it. &nbsp;I come back later and boy, it really needs something here.....and there....and so it goes. &nbsp;<br /><br />Then I have to re-photograph it and re-post it both to Facebook and my website. &nbsp;That's alright though, b/c sleeping on it really helps and even though the add-ons are minute, they do make a difference in the final product.<br /><br />There was this ADORABLE pic on Facebook of some friends' baby that I wanted to try....here was the first "finished" pic:</font><br /></div>  <div ><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-thin " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="http://www.artbycady.com/uploads/5/5/6/6/5566672/2987702.jpg?404" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div  class="paragraph editable-text" style=" text-align: left; "><font size="3" color="#999999">And here was the final FINAL finished product with a few small changes....but they made &nbsp;a big improvement, don't you think?</font></div>  <div ><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-thin " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="http://www.artbycady.com/uploads/5/5/6/6/5566672/4505515.jpg?400" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div  class="paragraph editable-text" style=" text-align: left; "><font size="3" color="#999999">In the end, I darkened the warm colors behind the baby, lifted more reflections in her eyes, slightly deepened her rosy cheeks and defined her lil' nose a bit more. &nbsp;All in all, this has been my best skin tone in a portrait yet, so I'm really happy with it.<br /><br />I have a LOT more to learn, but one painting at time, eh?</font><br /></div>  ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Teensy tiny painting.....]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.artbycady.com/1/post/2011/12/teensy-tiny-painting.html]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.artbycady.com/1/post/2011/12/teensy-tiny-painting.html#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Sat, 03 Dec 2011 18:39:34 -0800</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.artbycady.com/1/post/2011/12/teensy-tiny-painting.html</guid><description><![CDATA[My dear friend, Kate, came over the other day with a painting project to work on. &nbsp;She's been commissioned to paint a river scene for a Christmas present....the customer desired a watercolor painting with water, sky, a tree line, some mountains, clouds, and some lily pads in the river. &nbsp;Not too hard, right? &nbsp;Even as she described it, I was mentally mapping out how to do it. &nbsp;This  [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div  class="paragraph editable-text" style=" text-align: left; "><font size="3" color="#999999">My dear friend, Kate, came over the other day with a painting project to work on. &nbsp;She's been commissioned to paint a river scene for a Christmas present....the customer desired a watercolor painting with water, sky, a tree line, some mountains, clouds, and some lily pads in the river. &nbsp;Not too hard, right? &nbsp;Even as she described it, I was mentally mapping out how to do it. &nbsp;This was going to be fun and beautiful, too boot! &nbsp;(what does that expression <em>mean</em>?)<br /><br />Then, with a slightly mischievous twinkle in her eye, she says....it has to be 4x6 or smaller. &nbsp;Whaaaatttt???? &nbsp;lol<br /><br />After I finished snorting up my coffee in disbelief, I realized that she was <em>serious</em>. &nbsp;I argued and hemmed and hawed for a bit, pouted, stuck my bottom lip out.....used all of the usual successful manipulating tricks (that work on my husband), &nbsp;trying to gain some inches to the painting, or heck, even some millimeters, but alas, to no avail....it <em>must</em> be painted that small.<br /><br />Now, if ya'll know about my art history, I started out painting as a muralist. &nbsp;Painting small is not my cup of tea (or actually, cup o' Vietnamese coffee) &nbsp;I'd rather spend my time plucking my chin hairs (which I do spend time doing, BTW, considering that I am <strong><em>aging at an alarming rate</em></strong>, but that's another blog for another day) but we had to do it, so we ripped some small paper into tinier pieces of paper and then we ripped them <em>again</em>....into a piece that I would normally throw away as leftover scrap paper or use to scrape the cat food bowl clean so that the pieces don't end up in the sink drain..... aaaaand we started. &nbsp;<br /><br />The sketching didn't take long and once we started painting, I actually started to enjoy painting small. &nbsp;Who'd have thunk it? (as my 9 year old says) &nbsp;(after which, I correct her grammar as any responsible homeschool mom would do)</font></div>  <div ><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-thin " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="http://www.artbycady.com/uploads/5/5/6/6/5566672/5346556.jpg?586" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div ><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-thin " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="http://www.artbycady.com/uploads/5/5/6/6/5566672/3937779.jpg?582" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div  class="paragraph editable-text" style=" text-align: left; "><font size="3" color="#999999">All in all, it turned out cute and it was fun....surprisingly! &nbsp;I had thought that I was breaking the "small painting" records by my daisy paintings the other day:</font></div>  <span class='imgPusher' style='float:left;height:0px'></span><span style=' float: left; z-index: 10; position: relative; ;clear:left;margin-top:0px;*margin-top:0px'><a><img src="http://www.artbycady.com/uploads/5/5/6/6/5566672/3366275.jpg?393" style="margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:1px;padding:3px;" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder" /></a><div style="display: block; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center;"></div></span> <div  class="paragraph editable-text" style=" text-align: left; display: block; "><font size="3" color="#999999">But that was only practice for this painting....lol<br /><br />Anyhow, thanks for the challenge, Kate and I thought that yours turned out really nicely!<br /><br />I do doff my theoretical artistic hat to all of the small painters out there! &nbsp;It's tough stuff! &nbsp;The next time I see a lovely small painting, I will study it respectfully for at least a full minute if I don't get distracted by anything else.<br /><br />hee hee!<br /><br />Happy Painting!</font></div> <hr  style=" clear: both; visibility: hidden; width: 100%; "></hr>  ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Of moths, flowers...and art slashing]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.artbycady.com/1/post/2011/12/of-moths-flowersand-art-slashing.html]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.artbycady.com/1/post/2011/12/of-moths-flowersand-art-slashing.html#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Fri, 02 Dec 2011 08:45:04 -0800</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.artbycady.com/1/post/2011/12/of-moths-flowersand-art-slashing.html</guid><description><![CDATA[Sometimes, I get done with a painting and it just doesn't seem right....doesn't seem to fit with a frame, doesn't have the right balance....I have one or two paintings like that. &nbsp;This painting of purple flowers in a vase was actually a demo painting that I used to teach a class, it was framed and was in a show a while back, but I just couldn't seem to like it, much less love it.So, it's been sitting around, colle [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div  class="paragraph editable-text" style=" text-align: left; ">Sometimes, I get done with a painting and it just doesn't seem right....doesn't seem to fit with a frame, doesn't have the right balance....I have one or two paintings like that. &nbsp;This painting of purple flowers in a vase was actually a demo painting that I used to teach a class, it was framed and was in a show a while back, but I just couldn't seem to like it, much less love it.<br /><br />So, it's been sitting around, collection dust, looking useless and abandoned and yesterday, I had a moment of art slashing (yes, it comes upon me to cut up my art into smaller pieces) and I cut the whole &nbsp;thing in half, added some moths and butterflies....and voila! &nbsp;I loved it!<br /><br />Here's the first painting....the one I didn't like initially....kind of bland, eh?</div>  <div ><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-thin " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="http://www.artbycady.com/uploads/5/5/6/6/5566672/4996612.jpg?549" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div  class="paragraph editable-text" style=" text-align: left; ">I think the balance if off....plus, there's a lot of white background space going on.....<br /><br />Here's after the slasher (that's me!) hit it and the moths descended upon it....</div>  <div ><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-thin " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="http://www.artbycady.com/uploads/5/5/6/6/5566672/4536570.jpg?318" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <span class='imgPusher' style='float:left;height:0px'></span><span style=' float: left; z-index: 10; position: relative; ;clear:left;margin-top:0px;*margin-top:0px'><a><img src="http://www.artbycady.com/uploads/5/5/6/6/5566672/7661736.jpg?344" style="margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:1px;padding:3px;" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder" /></a><div style="display: block; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center;"></div></span> <div  class="paragraph editable-text" style=" text-align: left; display: block; "><br />I was happy with the results. &nbsp;I matted both pieces and I think it'll look really trendy framed as a set. &nbsp;<br /><br />The moths were an idea that I got from the Watercolor Artist magazine that I thought I'd try. &nbsp;They are REALLY fun, so if you're into watercolor, you should try them. &nbsp;<br /><br />First, sketch out the moth shape.....then wet the whole moth with clean water.<br /><br />Start dropping in, or touching in colors, starting with the moth's body first. &nbsp;Do NOT mix on the page, but allow the water to move the pigment as much as you can.<br /><br />After you've dropped in all of the desired colors, just lightly touch in darker pigment onto the very edges of the wings (the brown, for example) here and there. &nbsp;(I particularly like Payne's Gray and Van Dyke Brown) &nbsp;(Winsor &amp; Newton brand)<br /><br />It's a really quick and easy thing to paint and would look lovely on a greeting card or something like that. &nbsp;A butterfly or dragonfly shape would look cute, too.</div> <hr  style=" clear: both; visibility: hidden; width: 100%; "></hr>  <div ><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-thin " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="http://www.artbycady.com/uploads/5/5/6/6/5566672/9683355_orig.jpg" alt="Picture" style="width:100%;max-width:1100px" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div  class="paragraph editable-text" style=" text-align: left; ">See? &nbsp;I think it's a HUGE improvement and these might even sell, if I'm lucky....lol<br /><br />I hope everyone is having a lovely start to their Christmas season! &nbsp;Feel free too email me with any art questions that you might have. &nbsp;<br /><br />Cady@ArtByCady.com<br /></div>  ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Charming three, how I love thee]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.artbycady.com/1/post/2011/11/charming-three-how-i-love-thee.html]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.artbycady.com/1/post/2011/11/charming-three-how-i-love-thee.html#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Mon, 21 Nov 2011 17:04:51 -0800</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.artbycady.com/1/post/2011/11/charming-three-how-i-love-thee.html</guid><description><![CDATA[I LOVE the number three.....I've had three kids (the perfect amount), I'm always grouping items into little cute clusters of threes, there are three strikes before any outages, we are three parts (mind, body and spirit), I have three amazing friends (for whom I am eternally grateful!) there were three stooges and, of course, the Bermuda triangle has three sides, and ummmm.....I have three toes (plus 7 more) and my favorite amount  [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div  class="paragraph editable-text" style=" text-align: left; ">I LOVE the number three.....I've had three kids (the perfect amount), I'm always grouping items into little cute clusters of threes, there are three strikes before any outages, we are three parts (mind, body and spirit), I have three amazing friends (for whom I am eternally grateful!) there were three stooges and, of course, the Bermuda triangle has three sides, and ummmm.....I have three toes (plus 7 more) and my favorite amount of cookies to eat is three! (or four!)....even God (Who is one) is also...yep...THREE! &nbsp;(but this concept makes my brain hurt) &nbsp;I could ramble on and on about the aesthetic numeric beauty of three, but I will spare you. &nbsp;<br /><br />Therefore, I have been on a painting kick of threes. &nbsp;When I first started painting, artists would tell me to paint and RE-paint paintings (and as you say "paint and re-paint", say it in a dreary tone of voice) &nbsp;but that sounded SO pathetically BORING. &nbsp;Who wants to repaint a painting? &nbsp;Bleah...<br /><br />But now....at the wise old age of 3 (3 is how old I currently am in the watercolor world) (Happy Watercolor birthday to meeeee), I am starting to see the wisdom of repainting certain things. &nbsp;With all of &nbsp;my "three" paintings, I definitely have worked the kinks out by the third one. &nbsp;<br /><br />Here is painting #1....of plopping paint on the page (plopping is such a lovely word) and painting the flowers from the shapes that the original wash makes.</div>  <div ><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-thin " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="http://www.artbycady.com/uploads/5/5/6/6/5566672/7140989.jpg?538" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div  class="paragraph editable-text" style=" text-align: left; ">Here is painting #2......a bit better....more thought out and the colors are more cohesive:</div>  <div ><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-thin " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="http://www.artbycady.com/uploads/5/5/6/6/5566672/5951399.jpg?540" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div  class="paragraph editable-text" style=" text-align: left; ">See how lovely? &nbsp;Both of these &nbsp;paintings are gone now...one sold, one was a gift....so, I decided to paint the THIRD one....(say "third" with a really exciting tone of voice) and it came out REALLY happy...or rather, it made me happy b/c I like it!</div>  <div ><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-thin " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="http://www.artbycady.com/uploads/5/5/6/6/5566672/6230783.jpg?540" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div  class="paragraph editable-text" style=" text-align: left; ">Yes, three is the charm....I've also painted THREE in the treelike series and THREE of my favorite Vietnamese woman (and boy, is there a HUGE learning curve with the woman painting!)<br /><br />So, if you take home anything from this blog posting, &nbsp;it must be that 3 is a lovely number and in a pinch, you can use it as an "m" or a "w" (when turned sideways).<br /><br />Happy Painting!</div>  ]]></content:encoded></item></channel></rss>

